- 3 weeks ago
My boyfriend 28 and I 24 have been together for two years now but I am confused over the idea of getting married to him. We really like each other and he’s an amazing person but the only thing stopping me from taking the decision is his ED problem. He told me a few months after we started hanging out just with the intention of marriage. He has had this problem ever since and is small in his ‘department’ however we never had penetrative sex just to keep it for our wedding night. He has an ED with no apparent reasons. His testosterone tests are normal, his thyroid is normal. He has problems maintaining an erection and usually the erection is not very hard. However, he is little overweight and heavy smoker with no good eating habit whatsoever.
He told me all these things but as I’ve never experienced any such thing in my life before neither I’ve had sex so I am worried about our future.
I really want to get married to him but not sure what would happen after marriage. We are the kind of people who have their respective responsibilities in family and can’t afford to get divorced if we fail to be satisfied in this relationship. Also I am the only child of my parents and they really wish to see my kids and I’m concerned if his ED would affect that too.
I really need a sincere advice!! Please help.